Wednesday, 10 January 2018

January Book Club Meeting

The first Book Club meeting of 2018 took place at The Angel Inn on a rainy night in January (not Georgia).   Present were Annemarie, Joan, Sue, Jeanette, Pauline and Kate.  We discussed the various book gifts that had been exchanged at our Christmas meeting and read during December. We also enjoyed some food in the dining area. It was a nice venue as it is large and it felt as though we had the place to ourselves.

The following reviews are shorter than usual and not as detailed as I am trying to avoid giving too much of the storylines away as members are swapping and sharing the books.

Joan A  kicked off the proceedings with her views on  When Breath Become Air by Paul Kalanithi which had been given by Jeanette. The story is an autobiographical description of a young doctor’s memoir following a diagnosis of terminal lung cancer. Although it is obviously  sad,  Joan loved the book and also found it oddly inspiring.  She would not hesitate in recommending it to others .
Joan scored this book a 5.

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Kate had received After You’d Gone by Maggie O Farrell which had been given by Emma. Kate had mixed feelings about the book. The plot revolves round a woman taking a train journey to visit her family. However she witnesses something shocking  and leaves for home immediately. Kate felt she had been put off by a reference right at the beginning of the story and found the plot rather unbelievable, and the twists did not reflect the characters.
Kate gave the book a score of 3.

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Jeanette had been give Red House by Mark Haddon and was keen to read it as she had enjoyed The Curious Incident of The Dog in The Nigh Time.   The story centres on two families on holiday together in a cottage. Jeanette admitted that she struggled with it at first and had to resort to her memory technique as there were a lot of  names to remember.  She felt the chapters were too long and the lack of a back story meant she wasn’t really bothered about the characters till a long way into the plot.
Jeanette rated this one 3.

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Pauline had received Precious Bane by Mary Webb from Annemarie.  She commented that it was a lovely book and beautifully written, although in this particular edition the lengthy preface gave too much of the story away. It is set in rural Shropshire  in the early nineteenth century and tells the story of a woman born in the countryside who has a facial affliction. Pauline felt the melodramatic nature of the story was comparable with Thomas Hardy.
Pauline rated this book 4.

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Annemarie had been given  A Reliable Wife by Robert Goolrick.  If I had to sum up this book in three words it would be  Snowy, smouldering and secretive.  A woman steps from a train in rural Wisconsin in the bitter winter of 1909 to meet a man she has agreed to marry via his newspaper ad. I really enjoyed this book it has some classic gothic twists and turns but the ending was unexpected. I would certainly recommend it to others.
 I would rate this book 4.
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Joan H gave us her comments via the Facebook site. Joan had read  The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Alborn.  Joan had enjoyed the book although she felt it was sad, but it does make you think about life. She found the book quick to read and is keen to pass it on to others. We don’t have a score as yet for this one.
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Although Sue was present for the meeting she had only just started her book so it was too early to review this one.
If anyone who was unable to attend the meeting wants to add their comments please do so via the page or the blog.


Remember the read for January is A Dangerous Crossing by Rachel Rhys.
Our next meeting will be Thursday February 1st. Venue to be agreed.

Monday, 18 December 2017

December meeting - The Rosie Project by Graeme Simsion



The December group meeting took place in the ‘back room’ of The Victoria Public House, Low Fell and was beautifully hosted by Joan A.

I suspect at 14 members present this was the largest attendance of any group so far, and I’ve done my best to capture the essence of the discussion on ‘The Rosie Project’. Apologies to anything that has slipped through the net. A warm welcome was extended to our new attendees. What a pleasure to see the group expanding!

Personally speaking I gave up after chapter 9 of ‘The Rosie Project’ so can’t really speak with any authority, so the intent here is to reflect on contributions of others. 

The over-riding theme of the discussion was this was a ‘romp’ of a book, something akin to watching a ‘chick flick’. Not something anyone particularly raved about, but were mildly amused by (in the main). A number of the group did admit to having some ‘laugh out loud’ moments, but many felt that the praises of the plaudits on the cover of the book were somewhat over-enthusiastic. The book was advised to be taken ‘on face value’, and to ‘suspend reality’ whilst reading it. It was described as ‘silly’ and ‘light-hearted’.

Katie felt that the author had come up with a good idea (having a check-list to find a partner) and then woven quite a weak story around this. It was commented that a number of ‘twists and turns’ in the plot line were set up at the beginning of the book, which either were resolved very quickly at the end, or simply disappeared. A brief discussion took place around ‘who is Rosie’s father then?’, but this seemed to be in a mood of mild curiosity rather than heartfelt interest.

A number of the group expressed the opinion that perhaps following the success of ‘The Dog in the Night Time’ the author had decided that having a lead character with Asperger’s Syndrome would be an interesting plot device. The difference with this lead character, however, was that readers felt no sympathy for him. For the members of the group with significant experience of meeting people on the autistic spectrum, in work or family life, the portrayal of the lead character was described as ‘representative’ rather than ‘realistic’. Personally, I found the book quite offensive and disrespectful (hence giving up on it so quickly).

Sue noted that Rosie’s comment at the ending of the book that she would like to marry the lead character as long as ‘things are still crazy’ was inappropriate. We are living in a culture where many organisations are addressing the detrimental use of derogatory language historically linked to mental health presentations. We are all well advised to consider our personal vocabulary.

The group felt that the characters were not well written, and little empathy or sympathy was felt for either of the couple. “I didn’t like him, I didn’t like her!” It was noted “I like the premise of the book, but not the execution”. Responses were on a spectrum from ‘iconic and funny’ to ‘disappointing’.

New member of the group Debb noted how much she had enjoyed the process of taking the time to curl up and read a book written for adults. This was ‘a treat’. For many years her reading has been dominated by the demands of reading to children both at home and work.

Score out of 5 for the book, 3. (But I am directed to note that some felt it deserved a 4).

Following the feedback on the book, the group very much enjoyed a ‘pass the parcel’ game, although having not played it for a long time there was some confusion at times. At one point there was a break in the flow of proceedings with three or four women shouting “take something off, take something off”.

How this all was being perceived by the clientele of the pub beyond the curtains shielding us from public view was open to question. The Book Club Christmas meeting entertainment was a stripper? The Book Club were having a strip poker game? The Book Club were experimenting with a naturist theme? Some ideas for next Christmas perhaps? Winner of the scented candle was Pauline W. (Thanks to Joan for the game.)

The buffet was a great success. As a group we’re not precious about ‘homemade’ and anything goes. Katie’s homemade salted caramel shortcakes do deserve a special mention, however.
Following the success of last year’s book exchange we all contributed to this once again, bringing a wrapped book each to pass on to someone else, ‘bran tub’ style.

The Christmas Book Exchange results: for December reading:

Jeanette, The Red House by Mark Haddon

Lynda, The Paris Wife by Paula McLain

Joanne, The Underground Railway by Colson Whitehead

Joan H, The Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Alborn

Sheila, And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini

Debb, The Killer on the Wall by Emma Kavanagh

Joan A, When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi

Katie, After You’d Gone, Maggie O’Farrell

Sue C, Bittersweet, Colleen McCullough

Pauline W, A Year of Marvellous Ways, Sarah Winman

Viki, The Paying Guests, Sarah Waters

Pauline S, Precious Bane, Mary Webb

Anne-Marie, A Reliable Wife, Robert Goolrick (which caused much amusement on the evening as A-
M wasn’t feeling in a particularly reliable mood at home!)

After the opening of our wrapped book gift we each shared with the group which book we had brought along, and why we had chosen it.

The evening ended with a couple of rounds of ‘The World Cup of Everything’, a game from the Richard Osman book of the same name. (Again, the book and the score sheets were provided by the hostess with the mostess, the lovely Joan A)

The group debated the best Christmas film with the final being between ‘White Christmas’ and ‘Love Actually’. The winner: Love Actually.

The decision on the best Disney Film ended with a final between ‘Lady and the Tramp’ and ‘The Jungle Book’. The Winner: The Jungle Book.

Joanne amused the group by voting against the trend on pretty much every round.  But we didn’t come to blows!

Thanks to everyone for a lovely evening. I stayed out well beyond what is sensible for a ‘school night’ and for someone as socially anxious as me this is very unusual.  What a great group!

Much love to Emma who sadly missed out on the evening as she was poorly.

The book for January reading 2018 is ‘A Dangerous Crossing’ by Rachel Rhys (for discussion in February 2018). At our next group we’ll be sharing our thoughts on our individual book exchange Christmas book. Following the success of last year’s decision to do this in the form of a self-penned poem this time we’ll be presenting in the form of interpretive contemporary dance (not!). Further instructions to follow!

Season’s Greetings to all and see everyone again in 2018.


Wednesday, 6 December 2017

November Meeting - Cider with Rosie by Laurie Lee



We met in Rosa 12 for our November book club meeting. It was lovely to see Joan back from her adventures in China and hearing all about her amazing experience and achievements.

We welcomed new members Deb and Katie. We started to discuss our book Cider with Rosie. It seemed we had a variety of different copies of the book! Joan had not read the book this time but had read it many years ago and loved it. Having lived in Gloucester she knows the area well. Emma loved the descriptions in the book. Katie had listened to it being read on Radio 4 and said it was a good book to listen to. We talked about there being a TV series which aired a few years ago and some of us had watched it.

The general view was that it was a story but with no plot. It was a book of extracts from Lee's childhood growing up in rural Gloucestershire. Jeanette liked the chapter about his mum. Emma said the ending was poignant.

We decided to give the book a score of 4/5.



We discussed the next meeting being a Christmas gathering and Joan kindly offered to host an evening at hers. This will now be held in The Victoria as numbers were growing! As last year's book swap was a success we decided to carry on this tradition this year. Each member will give a gift of a book which they recommend and these will be swapped at our December gathering.

Wednesday, 1 November 2017

October meeting - Swallows and Amazons by Arthur Ransome



In October we decided to have a special meeting to send our very brave member Joan off to China with all of our best wishes. She completed a trek of the Great Wall of China for the Alzheimer's Society and did incredibly well, raising £5,250.32 (and counting) for this brilliant cause.

A few members met Joan at the Bank and the rest of us convened at The Imperial. There were a few small gifts, a good luck balloon and a bottle of fizz, complete with a sparkler, to help send her on her way.



The book to be discussed was Arthur Ransome's Swallows and Amazons, which only a select few of the group had finished. Others had managed to get part of the way through, while a couple had given up entirely.

It was generally agreed that it was a book very much of its time and very different to the children's literature of today. Jeanette pointed out that her daughter would have asked for a return to Harry Potter should she have tried to read it to her when she was growing up.

While the language was quite outdated, there were some nice descriptions and it seemed like a very pleasant way to spend a summer. Some of the younger members of the group (ahem, Emma) had to have the term 'duffer' explained to them.

The parents seemed quite lax in letting the children go off and have such adventures, but then finding a way to take adults out of the equation is always a challenge for children's authors. It was agreed that it was really nice to see the character of Captain Flint aka Uncle Jim getting involved and playing along with the kids' hijinx.

Overall, it was decided that the book should be awarded three stars out of five.

Member Joanne with the real-life Amazon in The Lakes


On November 2nd, the group will be discussing Cider with Rosie by Laurie Lee at Rosa 12.

Monday, 11 September 2017

"Defending Jacob" by William Landay

7th September 2017

Members met in the snug at “The Aletaster” in Low Fell. 

“Defending Jacob” by William Landay 

As discussion got under way, we soon realised how difficult it would be to write a blog without mentioning, or even hinting “what happens at the end” (one of our group hadn’t completed the novel). But be assured dear reader it is hoped that there will be no spoiler alert here. 
So here goes…

Andy is an Assistant District Attorney (so was the author it appears!) who finds his professional position challenged because his son is being tried for the murder of a school peer, Ben Rifkin. Andy’s protégé, Neil Logiudice, is prosecuting his son, Jacob, for the rather nasty murder of Ben.

Andy’s suspension from the case prevents him from further investigation of a probable suspect, a known paedophile.

Andy is our narrator throughout and he takes us on a rollercoaster journey through courtroom intrigue and machinations, interwoven with scenes from his home life where fear and doubt devastates their unity; where  bitterly cruel social ostracisation cuts down their defences. Meanwhile, Jacob, accused of being an evil and pathological murderer, remains removed and opaque throughout.

Throughout the developing court case we learn of Andy’s historic secret which impacts on the case and offers the reader another chance to debate the theory of “nature versus nurture” 

As a result, we watch his wife Laurie’s gradual but inevitable decline, which Andy feels powerless to prevent. Enormous sympathy was felt for this character and, indeed, for others drawn into the case like Jacob’s friend, Derek, a sympathetic and well-intentioned young informant. And there’s Ben Rifkin, the victim of a hateful and callous murder…..

Andy’s character grows as his pain increases and his torment drives him to protect his family. Landay’s well-observed depiction of modern-day adolescence takes us through the daily angst of peer pressure and bullying in the school yard and on social media with absolute understanding. However, he excels at convincing the reader of what it’s like to be a parent, struggling to believe in a child whose introvert behaviour excludes them. How much of their child’s life goes unnoticed… until there is a reason to investigate it…

But, has Andy violated professional ethics? Probably, for the sake of his son. We participate in this legal thriller but we are also drawn into the resulting family implosion.

Everyone enjoyed the book without exception. It was suggested that the novel might not compare to the literary genius of Scott Turow (“Presumed Innocent”) but we all agreed it was an exceptionally clever, tense and engrossing story which doesn’t abate, but ony heightens the adrenalin level at every turn of the page.

We awarded the book 4/5



*NB  Please vote for our October read from our Modern Classics list: “The Prime of Miss Jean Brodie” by Muriel Spark , “Cider with Rosie” by Laurie Lee or ”Painted Veil” by Somerset Maugham. Put it out on FB!!

Friday, 18 August 2017

August meeting - I Found You by Lisa Jewell


Our August meeting was kindly hosted by Sue (and husband Neil) at their home. 11 people attended; 10 having read the book. Sue served excellent food and Emma provided a delicious dessert. We reviewed the book I Found You by Lisa Jewell.

We found this book easy to read. Jeanette gave a detailed review as she wasn't sure she would make the meeting. Some of her views are as follows: "I quite enjoyed the book, and did find it the 'page turner' it promised to be on the cover of my copy. I don't think I would say it was a 'must read' which was also stated. 

"I felt a bit sad that the character of Derry Dynes didn't play a bigger role in the story. I was also a bit disappointed that the seaside village of Ridinghouse Bay didn't play a bigger role. I quite liked the local references to Robin Hood's Bay. I bounced between being intrigued by (and a little envious of) Alice and her bohemian lifestyle and really very annoyed by her.

"I wasn't so keen on the fact that the children had been involved with social services more than once - and that seemed OK - and when 'Frank' said 'I think I've killed someone' she didn't change her view of him."

Jeanette goes on to comment about the female characters in the book and comes to the conclusion that they all need a good shake! "I did enjoy reading it. I like that it drew me in and I wanted to know what happened - but the number of rather silly women wafting through life really annoyed me"

Many agreed with these views and thought that Alice was a good character but seemed to take too many risks with social services and then allowed a strange man into her home. Gray's mum also took risks allowing her children to go off with a stranger. The book got sillier and a bit far fetched. People were desperate for love.

Sue said she felt no character had depth and thought the author couldn't follow through. We all thought it was a book you can read quickly; a good holiday read. Near the end of the book it was a bit boring. We thought the map would reveal more. Jeanette was pleased it turned out not to be about a mental health issue.

Overall we rated it 3/5 although Sue hated it and gave it a 1!

A thoroughly enjoyable evening with fantastic hosting and yummy food! Sue put together a list of classics for us to choose and we found that many of us had read quite a few from the list. Emma suggested Swallows and Amazons as it is her dad's favourite book. This will be our September read. 

Our next book is Defending Jacob by William Landay. Happy reading!

Wednesday, 2 August 2017

July meeting - This Book Will Save Your Life by AM Homes



We met at The Victoria in Low Fell in the library room. At the beginning of the meeting there were 8 of us and this number rose to 10. Only Anne Marie and Joan had read the book. Joan had read the book on audio. Anne Marie said she would not recommend it to anyone!!

Joan said it was OK but she certainly didn't love it. Anne Marie said it got better as it went on. Set in LA with wacky characters and one or two funny one-liners. Pauline could not attend the meeting so she emailed her comments to Joan - "I've read the book and enjoyed it: a daft bit and unrealistic fantasy, but fun! I found the characters mostly quite appealing (though not particularly memorable!) and I looked forward to reading it each evening. Altogether I think probably a 4/5!"

Anne Marie and Joan gave the book a score of 3.

We talked about the Essex Serpent, which was last month's book and Joan said she had read a podcast about the author. Joan said that This Book Will Save Your Life went on about donuts too much but there were some nice bits about his son.

Some other books were recommended - Island of Secrets and The Japanese Lover.

Viki chose 5 books for us to choose from and we decided to give it a week before making our choice. 

We also talked about a cinema visit to see A Man Called Ove, which we arranged for the following Wednesday. Six of us, along with Emma's friend went to see it at The Tyneside Cinema and loved it. Emotional but true to the book. 

Our August meeting has been arranged for Thursday 3rd August. Sue has kindly offered to have the meeting at her home. Looking forward to meeting up and discussing our July book, I Found You by Lisa Jewell.

Written by Joanne Crilly